ScrollWithSupriyaChola

  1. Introduction – The Illusion of Casual Talk about how flings are portrayed in society—fun, freeing, "no strings attached"—but not everyone walks away untouched. Example: “They say flings are easy—two people, one short chapter, and no baggage. But no one warned me that even temporary people can leave permanent imprints.”   2. When a Fling Feels Like Something More Describe what it feels like when one person gets emotionally attached while the other stays detached. Explain how physical closeness can trigger emotional bonding (oxytocin, etc.).   3. The Aftermath: When They Leave, but the Feeling Doesn’t Speak about the silent pain. The overthinking. The guilt— "Was I too much?" vs. "Did they even feel anything?" 4. Why We Confuse Fling with Connection Emotional needs we carry (like from childhood or past wounds). Wanting to feel seen, heard, valued—even briefly. How trauma and vulnerability make certain moments feel bi...

— The Untold Identity of a Chola Vokkaliga By Supriya M A Name That Refused to Be Ignored For the longest time, I thought of my caste certificate as just a bureaucratic document—a checkbox for school, college, or government forms.  But one day, a word on that certificate stopped me cold: Chola Vokkaliga. Chola? As in the Chola dynasty? Was it just a name—or something more? That moment sparked a journey I never expected: a deep dive into history, identity, and a forgotten legacy I may be a living part of. Can a dynasty end—and still live on in its people? Clue 1: Who Are the Chola Vokkaligas? Vokkaligas are known across Karnataka as a proud agrarian community, deeply rooted in farming traditions and local culture.  But Chola Vokkaliga? That name sounded like a cross between two worlds— the warrior kings of Tamilakam and the humble plough-wielding communities of Karnataka . Here’s where it gets interesting: 🠞 The Karnataka government officially lists “Chola ...